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Thursday, 16 June 2016 00:00

Tell Your Heart to Beat Again

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Greetings!

I want to take a moment to thank you all for your loving support and prayers over these past difficult weeks. You have encouraged me and reminded me how important it is to be loved in the midst of pain. I have allowed myself space to grieve and realized the amount of energy that it takes. It knocks me down at the most unexpected times. But in the grand scheme of things, I feel the Presence of the Spirit within and around me, holding me up and infusing me with strength and peace. I know it will take time to get on top of it, but of course, the loss will always be felt. Losing your life partner, your closest friend and confidante, prayer partner, and so much more, cannot be overcome overnight. I just thank God every day for His beautiful ways of sustaining me and turning my face to the future with hope and faith.

 

Every day on the radio I hear the Danny Gokey song, "Tell Your Heart to Beat Again" and it has become the Lord's hug to me.

I focus on the lyrics and feel His peace.

  

You're shattered
Like you've never been before
The life you knew
In a thousand pieces on the floor
And words fall short in times like these
When this world drives you to your knees
You think you're never gonna get back
To the you that used to be

Tell your heart to beat again
Close your eyes and breathe it in
Let the shadows fall away
Step into the light of grace
Yesterday's a closing door
You don't live there anymore
Say goodbye to where you've been
And tell your heart to beat again

Beginning
Just let that word wash over you
It's alright now
Love's healing hands have pulled you through
So get back up, take step one
Leave the darkness, feel the sun
Cause your story's far from over
And your journey's just begun

Tell your heart to beat again
Close your eyes and breathe it in
Let the shadows fall away
Step into the light of grace
Yesterday's a closing door
You don't live there anymore
Say goodbye to where you've been
And tell your heart to beat again

Let every heartbreak
And every scar
Be a picture that reminds you
Who has carried you this far
'Cause love sees farther than you ever could
In this moment heaven's working
Everything for your good

Tell your heart to beat again
Close your eyes and breathe it in
Let the shadows fall away
Step into the light of grace
Yesterday's a closing door
You don't live there anymore
Say goodbye to where you've been
And tell your heart to beat again
Your heart to beat again
Beat again
Oh, so tell your heart to beat again


Artist: Danny Gokey
Album: Hope In Front Of Me ©

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KJTnjac7mhc  

 

I hope to get back to a regular blogging schedule soon. Again, I love you all and thank you for all your loving messages.

Nancy

 

 

Tuesday, 03 May 2016 00:00

OUR RESPONSE TO LAWLESSNESS

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by Pastor Ray Thomann, Hope is Alive Ministries

 

One of the devil's most important strategies is to completely destroy the Biblical foundation of

our nation. Without a moral compass to guide a people, everything becomes subjective. This

deadly and destructive game plan is being waged through a culture war that seeks to redefine

lies as truths.

 

By falsely claiming a desire for equality, civil rights and love for fellow man (who wouldn't want

this), evil has effectively disguised its true intentions. Through the use of political correctness,

social justice and the rules of radicals; the minions of darkness have launched a relentless

attack on the character, freedom and finances of those who oppose them. They have also

used indoctrination practices within the public school system and the institutes of 'higher

education' to pollute the mind of this generation's children.

 

What is taking place in our nation is a spiritual battle that has grave consequences. This is a

war for the souls of men.

 

For many years, I have addressed the American Churches' role in the state of putrification

taking place in our nation. Christians in general, have remained relatively silent over many

decades as the progressive culture launched an all out attack on the infallible word of God.

With that being said, the point of this blog is not to address the state of the church. Rather, it's

to address a question that is of great concern to those whose eyes are open to the truth.

In the past few years, we have witnessed the assault on the Biblical definition of marriage and

the redefining of the basic definitions of what it is to be a man or a woman. Popular opinion

and worldview seem to be aligning with the fallible wisdom of men. This is our Isaiah 5:20

moment.

 

What I've come to understand is that many Christians are confused and overwhelmed by

what is taking place in our country. They seek guidance as to their response to the

destruction of the moral foundation. 

 

“If the foundations are destroyed, what can the righteous do?” - Psalm 11:3

 

To respond to this concern, we must first remember what Jesus told us. He said there would

be a time in which lawlessness will abound and that the love of many would grow cold (Matt.

24:12). 

 

So how are we to move forward in these challenging times; shielding our hearts from growing

cold?

 

• Control our anger. It's easy for one to grow angry with all we are facing. However, we

must remember that anger only leads to coldness.

• Opportunity. Jesus' is calling us to rise and shine. We have been given an opportunity

to share the Good News of Jesus with the lost in fulfillment of His Great Commission.

• Grow our relationship with Jesus. By growing our relationship with Jesus, seeking Him

in all things and at all times, our faith is strengthened and our love for our enemies will

increase.

• Prayer. Continue in fervent prayer for one another, the nation and those who are lost.

• Demonstrate the love and compassion of Yeshua. It's hard to love those who seek to

destroy us. But that's exactly what Jesus did. By abiding in His word and focusing

upon Him, He will fill us with His love and compassion for our fellow man.

• Maintaining a healthy, holy fear of God. To love our God more than we fear man.

 

 

 

As I move forward from one day to the next, I wonder about God’s plans and purposes. Don’t you? I ask Him a lot of questions.  I already know many of the answers, but still, they are perplexing.  I wonder how He figures I should be the one left behind to deal with bills, car repairs, insurance mix-ups and the neighborhood mountain lion. I think my husband, who worked so hard for years, not to mention giving his life in military service, deserved to receive his reward. I don’t begrudge him that, but I can’t help meditating on what lessons I’ve yet to learn in the aftermath of his leaving. Lessons I probably, in truth, do not want to learn.

 

If you are in a season of grieving, as I am, I want you to be sure to take time every day to stop and really relax and let whatever questions, comments, complaints, etc. that rise up, be expressed.Tell God how you feel.  He knows anyway.  You can cry, yell, question, journal, or maybe even use your pillow as a punching bag, but you need an outlet for all that pent-up pain. Don’t stuff it down. If you do suppress it, I promise you that at some point it will explode into existence, and it could hit at a time that is not at all convenient.

 

This thing called grief is like a monster dressed in pretty clothes.  Right when you’re having good memories and feeling the peace of acceptance and progress, some painful thoughts hit like a grenade and bang----a stomach punch knocks you down.  I’ve learned to cry out to God right at that moment for His strength and love to overtake me.  He answers so beautifully.

 

I hope that by sharing some of my journey through grief, it might help you, since several of you have mentioned your own struggles.  It’s ironic. I’ve been a grief counselor and know what to expect, but when my own hits, it still packs a punch. Knowledge is not everything. But God gave us emotions and they have a purpose. How could we love someone deeply and not feel any pain when they’re gone? I know I’ll be with him again for eternity, but frankly, right now it doesn’t help a whole lot to know that.  It does matter and I look forward to our reunion, but the aloneness of the moment is still very real.

 

I thank God that He promises to never leave or forsake us. He is a wonderful father, husband and friend. He gives wisdom, comfort and peace. Without that sweet, gentle Spirit flooding my soul over and over, I’m sure I couldn’t do this. It’s a gift that I give thanks for constantly.  I’m going to survive, and I’m going to be okay. So are you---so hold fast to His promises and keep trusting.  And, since we know the direction our world is headed is menacing---perhaps God’s gift to my husband was to take him before things get worse. It’s something to think about!

 

“The righteous perish, and no one ponders it in his heart; devout men are taken away,

and no one understands that the righteous are taken away to be spared from evil.

Those who walk uprightly enter into peace; they find rest as they lie in death.” (Isa 57:1-2)

Monday, 11 April 2016 00:00

To Every Thing There is a Season

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My heart is so full of gratitude as I look back on the past seven days. No doubt they’ve been the most difficult seven days of my life. The first day I held my precious husband’s hand as our souls disconnected, and he walked into eternity. The days following are a blur, but on this breezy Sunday afternoon I have, in the depths of my being, the peace that surpasses all understanding. That doesn’t mean I don’t get hit by waves of grief that almost knock me off my feet. There is absolutely nothing as jarring to your spirit as looking at the person you love with all your heart lying in a coffin. How does one do that without searing pain? And then, how is it possible that I can have perfect peace in my heart today? Grief will still be, but In the overarching scheme of things, I’m experiencing a beautiful confidence that the Lord is holding me and that He is at the same time fellowshipping with my husband. It’s a wonderful feeling. I am thankful.

 

Life is both a mystery and a stark reality at the same time; a curious dichotomy.  I have been present at births as well as at deaths. Both experiences open one’s eyes to the magnificence of our God. He breathes breath into a body and He stops the beating heart, snuffing out breath. It’s His sovereign decisions that cause us to celebrate one day and another day to mourn. …”all the days ordained for me were written in your book before one of them came to be.” Psalm 139:16  The power is all His; the plan His as well.

 

At times my grief turns into a bit of envy. I realize that my husband is in the Presence of God; he’s enjoying laughter with family and friends he’s missed. He has no more pain, no more worries, stressors or sickness. I’m here missing him, wondering what comes next, dealing with unresolved bills, situations and responsibilities. My humanness bleeds over onto my joy that he is in heaven.

 

As I seek the Lord, laying all my concerns and questions at His feet, I sense that calming, peaceful Existence taking hold of my mind and body. I know without any doubt that He is with me, loving me, holding me and reassuring me that He will never leave me or forsake me. He knows what is facing me and He’s already there. Each day will find its own resolutions as He sorts things out. All I have to do is trust and obey. And to know Him. Knowing Him means knowing it’s all covered...perfectly.

 

The day will come when my breath will be snuffed out, my heartbeat stopped. I will have the joy of walking into the arms of Jesus, greeted by family and friends. What I endured on earth will not matter at all. All that will matter is being in the Presence of the One Who controls it all. And experiencing His love and grace. When grief tries to derail me, I am determined to take hold of His promises and hang on tight. The alternative would be pointless and pitiful. “I can do all things through Christ Who gives me strength.” And I am eternally grateful for the strength and hope and courage He is pouring into me.


Thank you for your prayers and love during this season of my life.

 


Happy to welcome this week's Guest Blogger Samara Ashley!

 

 

 

 

Sometimes, the simplest of holidays can cause unnecessary stress on the children in blended families.In my book, “Broken to Blended: Encouragement for Blended Families,” I have a chapter titled “The Not-So-Hallmark Holidays” which discusses the unwanted tension that comes along with holidays that should be more enjoyable. What most people experience as a fun day to spend with family is not always the case for blended families. Lack of communication and poor planning can be two of the stumbling blocks that can cause even more stress on these special days. I don’t want my kids growing up worrying about upsetting one parent or the other. I want them to be able to freely talk about and show love to each person that has a huge part in their lives. The older my children get, the more I realize how important it is for me to support their relationships with their other parents and grandparents. It wasn’t always easy. There were many times over the years where I let my selfishness get in the way and in return dampened the spirit of the occasion. I wish I could go back and have a do over and change my attitude, but since I can’t I try my best to make up for those times. I want my kids to know that it’s awesome when we show love to others. That’s exactly what Jesus wants us to do. After all, God is love and I want my children to see that Christ lives in me. 

 

So, how do you make it work? First of all, I believe it’s important to encourage your child to celebrate their parent or step-parent. No matter your personal feelings or if there is drama in your family life, don’t let that carry over to your child. Take them to the store. Encourage them to make a card and most of all keep your conversation positive when talking to them about their family. 

 

Last Mother’s Day, I went out of my own comfort zone and sent a personal message to my ex-husband’s wife. I felt the Lord leading me to do this, but it took some time for me to figure out what I wanted to say. After thinking about it for a bit, I got the words together and then something clicked. I live in the same shoes. I am a stepmom. I know how it feels when you put so much effort into parenting and sometimes feel like you go unnoticed or unappreciated. I felt as if I were writing exactly what I would want to hear from someone else. The words “I appreciate you” and “Thank you for all you do for the children.”  Isn’t it funny how God reminds us that we are all human and in need of His love?

 

I wish I could say that I’m a master at this now, but I am human. I mess up daily and have to continually ask for the Lord’s strength, forgiveness, and help. Blended family life is hard, but with God all things are possible and I believe that He is working all things out for the good. My prayer today is that you will do the same. Put your personal feelings aside and for the sake of your children go out of your way to promote a healthier and happier holiday. Not only will this make your own life more enjoyable, but it will make your marriage stronger.

- Samara Ashley

 


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Saturday, 19 March 2016 00:00

A Little Rain Must Fall

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In this world you will have trouble, but take heart! I have overcome the world. (John 16:33)

 

Into every life, a little rain must fall.  Sometimes it’s considerably more than a little. Sometimes it’s a flood. We can always quote happy scripture promises when things are going well, but when the deluge crashes in, it’s a bit harder to let those easy verses roll off our tongues.

 

This week I’ve had prayer requests from people I love that are seriously painful events:

One’s pastor fell and broke his leg in three places, requiring surgery. One’s husband’s memory problems got extremely worse and he had to be admitted to an Alzheimer’s facility. One’s son was killed in a tragic car crash. One’s daughter rebelled and ran off to marry against the family’s wishes. One who is ready to reconcile a troubled marriage doesn’t have the support of her family. One’s teenage niece is missing for a week now and no one has a trace of an idea where she might be. One suffers a debilitating disease that robs her of fulfilling her calling. I could probably list more, but my point is that many, many folks are struggling right now with issues that are far from easy.

 

I want to thank all of you who have loved us and prayed for my husband and me these past months. God does truly have a purpose in all things. Sometimes we can’t identify what that purpose is, but it doesn’t negate the fact that He is working behind the scenes. I already can see things in me that have surfaced that are not good.  I’ve confessed and repented and realized places where my heart needs cleansing. He is teaching me many things about myself. He is also showing Himself to my husband in different ways.

 

When your storm is raging, find ways to remind yourself to stop, breathe, and step back. It’s necessary to not react, but to look up, call out to Jesus and let Him take over. I fully realize that several times when I over-reacted in distress, I totally flunked a test---and so yes, I got to take it over till I passed!! This process of refining is a good thing. It doesn’t always feel good, but no discipline ever does.  

 

I talk a lot about resting in God. Resting in Him means you stand firm against panic attacks, despair or hopelessness. It means you trust God to the point that whatever the outcome, you can be at peace. It is possible. It might not be spontaneous, (and we wish it was), but if you allow Him into your situation, and you trust Him completely, you actually can rest and find peace in the midst of the storm. God is in control. We can become angry with Him for not answering our prayers the way we want, but if we truly believe He is sovereign and omniscient and omnipotent, how can we stay stressed?

 

I wish I could have miracles to pour out on your situation. I would gladly do it, and quickly. But more importantly, my prayer for you would be that you could trust God so fully that you sigh a deep cleansing sigh, look up and trust that He has it covered and He knows best.

That’s what I’m reminding myself each day. I still flunk some tests, but I’m doing better.

Jesus said He has overcome the world. That’s quite a statement. As for me, I want to be fully attached inside and out to the One Who has overcome the world! I pray that for you too.

Saturday, 05 March 2016 00:00

Endurance? Here’s the real Enduro

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Patient endurance is what you need now, so that you will continue to do

God's will. Then you will receive all that he has promised. Hebrews 10:36

 

Greetings from Caregiver Land,

 

I haven’t been posting much because I’ve been so sleep deprived there’s no telling what might come forth. Anybody out there relate? I really appreciate the emails and other messages I’ve received filling me with encouragement and support. And from those who are in the same boat---we need each other! I know people are praying for us, and for me specifically. At times I’m teetering on the brink of despair and suddenly I’m flooded with peace and calm. So….thank you folks, and thank you Lord!

 

When you’re slogging through the mire of grief and survival, you are tempted toward self-pity; just being honest here.  I’ve asked God, “Why is it that you chose this path for my husband, and why did you feel it was a good path for me?” It’s so easy to say that we grow through our trials. It’s common to hear all the cliches about how we learn so much through suffering. And I agree. We do. But, at 3 a.m. when I’m jolted awake for the fourth time since I went to bed at 10, to find him on the floor once again, I frankly don’t care what I’m supposed to be learning. I just wish he could sleep all night occasionally, and oh, how I would love to do that too. I trudge downstairs, wake up my daughter, who comes without complaint, and together we heave him off the floor, clean him up, and eventually all of us get back to bed...at least for a couple of hours, till he wakes again.

 

Usually, the days I’m feeling sorry for myself, I open up facebook and see a handful (at least) of horrible stories of people who are going through so much worse than I.  I repent, and realize I do have more compassion now for those folks than ever before. Don’t get me wrong. I think we (you who are walking through similar circumstances with me) are really normal and okay when we sometimes stop to vent or cry or whine. We are human. We just can’t plant the flag and live there. I know one thing from all this: I have a new and deeper appreciation for sleep and for “normal” daily life.

 

As we move through this journey, we are blessed to have hospice staff who offer support and insights toward the things to come. As Christians, we know that this world is not our home and the eternal home to come is going to be indescribable. I am excited that my husband soon gets to meet Jesus face to face, be reunited with his loved ones, and begin his eternal life of joy. I’m a bit envious, in fact. I know that my time will come eventually, but I want his crossing over to that other side to be pain-free, peaceful and all that God wants it to be. I don’t want to interfere with that by being selfish, complaining or without loving compassion. I don’t want to have regrets.

 

We really should celebrate any Christian’s homegoing with joy and excitement for what’s coming for them. We are allowed to grieve as we say our temporary goodbyes, but I’m praying that in the midst of my pain, I can truly rejoice for him. I’m not really all that strong. Most days I wonder how I will ever get through this, much less do it well. The answer is that I know my Lord will carry me, strengthen me and sustain me all the way through, just as He is doing now, day by day. I constantly recite Phil 4:13: “I can do all things through Christ, Who gives me strength.” And I can!  One day at a time. One hour at a time.

 

For you have need of endurance, so that when you have done the will of God, you may receive what was promised.” Hebrews 10:36

 

Friday, 12 February 2016 00:00

The Rocky Road that's NOT Ice Cream

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Are you in a season of testing? Do things seem out of control? Does it seem like time is standing still and life is tackling you from behind? I ask because that’s where I am today. I haven’t slept straight through a night for a couple of weeks, (and that was when I was on a trip out of town). These nights of getting up and down every hour or so seem to stack up to molding me into a statue of perpetual grogginess. This is not about complaIning. I’m simply stating facts.

I can honestly recognize that the trial I’m living through is not as tough as some people’s. I have much to be grateful for, each and every day. It just seems that when I haven’t had enough sleep, everything in front of me looms out of proportion.

 

I open my Bible and read--here and there and everywhere--not exactly absorbing it as I hope to. My eyes blur along with my mind, but I find comfort in the scriptures, no matter what they’re about on any given day.This is definitely not my normal mode of operation. But with the assignment I’ve been given at the moment, I’m pretty sure it’s the best I can do.

 

I know a number of people caring for terminally ill spouses or other loved ones. I now have a whole new perspective and compassion for them. I have no doubt that my Father wants me to understand the needs of those who grieve and must carry on each day as though life was normal, when it is far from it.

 

One thing He is teaching me is how to find joy in little, seemingly insignificant things. How to give Him praise and thanksgiving for small joys like a frisky puppy making our family laugh together, finally. He’s showing me the benefits of leaning on Him when I’m expected to do something that is so hard for me. Caregiving shows us how to love in ways we’ve never known. It’s difficult and at the same time it’s character building and shows us our own flaws. I’m learning new things about myself each day; some good things, and some not. God knows those areas in me that need refining. He’s a good Abba Who loves me enough to show me how to be a better me. I’m grateful to be growing through this trial.

 

This morning He led me to this passage. It brought me great comfort. Glory be to God, for all He is and all He does!

 

Psalm 59:16-17

16 But as for me, I will sing about your power.

   Each morning I will sing with joy about your unfailing love.

For you have been my refuge, a place of safety when I am in distress.

17 O my Strength, to you I sing praises,

   for you, O God, are my refuge, the God who shows me unfailing love.

Friday, 05 February 2016 00:00

You Were Made To Shine

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Nancy LaPointe

What a wonderfully blessed time we enjoyed this past weekend at the ladies’ retreat in Buena Vista, GA.  You Were Made To Shine was such an inspiring theme as we delved deep into places the Lord was compelling us to examine. We hope to continue receiving testimonies as all of us seek even deeper healing in the days to come.

 

We enjoyed the warm hospitality of Mr. Walker Williams, Innkeeper of Sign of the Dove Bed & Breakfast. Praise and worship time was led by Katie Alexander and our lovely hostess and leader was Jennifer Thomann.  

 

Friday evening and all day Saturday were filled with teaching, prayer, fellowship and worship. Saturday evening we caravanned to the Hope is Alive Church at Mauk. Words can’t really express how beautiful it was. Pastor Ray and the Thomann clan had outlined the church drive with luminaries, glowing against the night sky.  Inside this lovely church built in 1910 with it’s original wooden floors, were luminaries burning on both sides of the center aisle (the only aisle), across the altar, kneeling benches, baptistry, and so on; no other light but candles.

 

A large cross was standing in the left corner of the church.  Soft music played. One by one each lady knelt at the altar, wrote on a small paper what she was truly giving up to the Lord, then went over and nailed it to the cross. The sound of the hammer echoing there was so like we imagine the sound of Jesus being nailed to that cross.  After everyone took their turn, we laid hands and prayed over each one. The Holy Spirit was so powerful.  He spoke to us, gave words of knowledge, healing words for the very broken. We found it difficult to leave the very heavy Presence of the Lord in that place.

 

Sunday was a true celebration. Pastor Ray conducted the church service at the B&B and cooked and served us lunch. In fact, he did much of the cooking throughout the weekend, which was another treat for us all.  

 

We are continuing to give thanks and praise for all that was accomplished during the retreat weekend.  Jennifer is truly gifted in leading and loving. Her little touches to every detail were treasures for us all.  I am so grateful to have been a part of this endeavor. The Lord has many plans and purposes for the HIA ministry and we are excited and expectantly looking forward to what comes next.

 

Tuesday, 02 February 2016 00:00

Living in God's Rest

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Book Review by Anne Wilson......

 

Nancy LaPointe, author of Living in God's Rest... At Peace in A Chaotic World, doesn't believe in

coincidence. She believes that God has a plan. So when the idea of "resting in Him" started

turning up repeatedly in her life‐‐‐on the radio, in emails, in whatever she was reading‐‐‐she

listened. She began to study the concept and felt that God was leading her to share His

revelations with others.

 

Both our human nature and society drive us to prove our worth through how much we can

handle. We wear our busyness like a badge of success, but at what cost? The price of a culture

of highly focused, highly busy individuals is the absence of peace. We live in a time of

increasing unrest and epidemic hyperactivity. Fear, rebellion, violence, and evil are escalating

all around us.

 

A central message of Nancy's book is that we can experience inner peace no matter what is

happening in our lives or in the world. But "resting” is much more than just taking a nap or

stopping our frantic pace of life for a quick breather before running onward. Chasing after the

world's ways of dealing with stress‐‐‐vacations, self‐help books, prescription drugs‐‐may offer

temporary relief, but in the end, will not bring deep or lasting peace. Entering God's rest

requires us to grow spiritually and learn to depend on Him. It means "living so close to God that

we can hear His heartbeat." Neither does resting in God mean that we live without worry or

fear, for we are human after all. It means trusting God in a way that brings peace to the soul,

"understanding that His plans and purposes are always good, regardless of how they appear at

the time."

Welcome to my website!

"Living in God's Rest...At Peace in a Chaotic World" "Masked in Deceit,"  and Faith's Illusions are all available now.  Living in God's Rest can be purchased from any of your favorite booksellers online or in stores. Masked in Deceit and Faith's Illusions, Christian novels, are available from Amazon. All books are offered in ebook versions as well.  I always appreciate reviews on the seller's sites.  Just click the books below and you will find links to purchase.

 

 

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Have a blessed day!
 - Nancy

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